IT guy posted a job vacancy for a middle girlfriend and put forward a number of requirements for the candidate. He himself promises mutual respect and will pay for the manicure. The community is discussing the unseemly offer

«Hot position. Looking for a girl — #middlegirlfriend,» wrote Oleksandr and spoke about his expectations from the candidate.

Tester requirements series:

• knowledge of love languages;
• experience working with a psychotherapist;
• basic knowledge of relationships;
• the ability to speak;
• English at the level of Who is on duty today;
• experience in relationships from 1 year;
• the ability to hug;
• empathy;
• gender — exclusively female (such are the client’s requirements);
• lack of tendency to take offense without explanation;
• pleasant smell.

Among the optional but desirable requirements are the ability to read, healthy attachment, and the ability to accept the otherness of a partner.

Alexander offers the potential girl a hybrid format (to be discussed later); a trial period of one month, without formal registration, no payment.

In return, the candidate who agrees to «cooperate» in this way will receive reciprocity, respect, love (in all its manifestations), and payment for a manicure.
— work-love balance.

«Throw your CV in personal. There is a referral bonus,» said Oleksandr and added that the customer is himself.

In the comments to the post, there are IT professionals who are humorous about such a vacancy, while there are those who hate Oleksandr for clogging up the professional network.

«I periodically come across posts from not very smart people with the intention of sexualizing a professional network and turning it into a dating site. It looks so-so, you’re headed straight for the trash,» Project Manager Maksym Gavrish noted.

«According to Article 2-1 of the Labor Code of Ukraine, any discrimination in the labor sphere, in particular on the basis of gender, is prohibited,» reminds 3D Weapons Artist Klym Yatsenko.

Headhunter Lana Company notes: «There is a candidate that meets your requirements, but there are also additional clarifications.
1. Do you pay for a manicure as a one-time payment or as a subscription?
2. Is Trial Month a romantic comedy or a thriller?
3. What is the reward for a candidate successfully passing the probationary period?

«Paying only for a manicure??? But girls in general are expensive to operate. There is monthly maintenance for eyelashes, eyebrows, pedicure, depilation + a beautician…», jokes career consultant Svitlana Kramarenko .

Senior Software Engineer Anton Gusev warns the ad author: «The girl you are looking for may have the same list of veiled requirements. Work with outstaffing/contractors, this satisfies 2/3 of all your requirements out of the box, and considering Dysons/iPhones, it will be much cheaper than a permanent relationship.»

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